It's Not Just What You Do, But How You Do It

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Devotional by J.Pierce
Primary Scripture: Jeremiah 38:7–13
Anchor Verse: Jeremiah 38:12
Supporting Scriptures: Philippians 2:3–8; Galatians 6:2; Micah 6:8; Colossians 3:12–17; John 13:12–17; Jeremiah 39:15–18
Estimated Reading Time: Approximately 11–13 minutes
Prayer
Heavenly Father Yahweh,
We come before You with grateful hearts, acknowledging that everything we do should reflect the
character of the One we serve. Forgive us for the times we have been more concerned with
completing a task than caring for the people involved. Forgive us when our words have been correct
but our attitudes have been unkind, when our intentions have been good but our actions have caused
unnecessary hurt, and when we have overlooked the small opportunities to demonstrate compassion.
Open our understanding as we examine Your Word. Teach us to recognize injustice, to act
courageously, and to serve others with humility and care. May the Holy Spirit guide our thoughts and
shape our conduct so that our actions reflect the love of Yeshua, our Savior.
Amen.
Introduction — When Doing Good Isn't the Whole Story
Have you ever done something good for someone, only to discover that the way you did it left them feeling hurt, embarrassed, or unappreciated?
Perhaps you helped someone financially but reminded them repeatedly of what you had done. Maybe you corrected someone who needed correction, but your words were unnecessarily harsh. Perhaps you completed an assignment at church, at work, or at home, yet treated the people around you as obstacles rather than individuals deserving respect.
The task was completed. The responsibility was fulfilled. The intended result may even have been achieved.
But something was missing.
We often measure our actions by their outcomes. Did we finish the assignment? Did we solve the problem? Did we provide the help? Did we accomplish what needed to be done?
Those questions matter, but Scripture invites us to examine something deeper.
What does the way we do something reveal about the condition of our hearts?
In Jeremiah 38, we encounter a man named Ebed-Melek who understood that rescuing someone required more than simply getting them out of danger.
His example teaches us that doing what is right and doing it with compassion belong together.
Scripture Exploration — A Prophet in the Pit
Jeremiah's ministry was not an easy one.
He had been called to proclaim Yahweh's Word to a people who frequently resisted what they heard. During Jerusalem's final crisis, Jeremiah warned that the city would fall to Babylon and that those who surrendered would preserve their lives.
His message was unpopular, especially among officials who believed his words weakened the people's determination to resist.
In Jeremiah 38:1–6, those officials accused Jeremiah before King Zedekiah. The king permitted them to act against the prophet, and they lowered Jeremiah into a cistern.
There was no water in the cistern, only mud, and Jeremiah sank into it.
The prophet who had faithfully spoken Yahweh's Word was now trapped in a place where he could not rescue himself.
But someone noticed.
Ebed-Melek, a Cushite official serving in the royal household, learned what had happened. Rather than remaining silent, he approached the king and identified the officials' actions as wrong.
He recognized the danger Jeremiah faced and requested permission to intervene.
The king authorized the rescue.
Ebed-Melek then gathered men, ropes, and old cloths. He lowered the materials into the cistern and instructed Jeremiah to place the cloths beneath his arms before the ropes were used to lift him.
Jeremiah 38:12 records this seemingly ordinary instruction.
And Jeremiah 38:13 tells us that the men lifted Jeremiah out.
The rescue was successful.
But the biblical writer preserves a detail that could easily have been omitted: the old cloths.
Deep Dive — Why the Old Cloths Matter
Imagine Jeremiah's physical condition.
He has been lowered into a muddy cistern. He is trapped, vulnerable, and dependent upon others for his rescue.
Now imagine being pulled upward by ropes placed directly beneath your arms. The pressure and friction could cause additional pain or injury.
Ebed-Melek provides cloths to place between Jeremiah's body and the ropes.
The text does not explicitly describe Ebed-Melek's private thoughts. It does, however, show us the care he took in preparing the rescue.
He did not treat Jeremiah merely as a problem that needed solving.
He treated him as a person whose welfare mattered.
There are three important movements in this account.
Recognizing What Is Wrong
First, Ebed-Melek recognized what was wrong.
In Jeremiah 38:9, he confronted the injustice committed against Jeremiah.
Compassion begins with a willingness to acknowledge another person's suffering rather than dismissing or ignoring it.
Acting With Consideration
Second, Ebed-Melek acted on what he recognized.
He did not stop with expressing concern. He obtained permission, gathered assistance, and secured the materials needed for the rescue.
Concern without action would have left Jeremiah in the cistern.
Third, Ebed-Melek considered how his actions would affect Jeremiah.
This is where verse 12 becomes especially meaningful.
The ropes were necessary, but the cloths made their use more considerate.
The goal was to bring Jeremiah out. The method showed concern for the person being brought out.
We should be careful not to invent a hidden spiritual meaning for the cloths. Jeremiah does not tell us that they symbolize grace, salvation, or some secret prophetic message.
Their importance lies in what the narrative actually describes: practical care during a courageous act of rescue.
Sometimes the smallest details reveal whether we are merely performing a duty or genuinely considering another person's needs.
Later, in Jeremiah 39:15–18, Yahweh speaks directly concerning Ebed-Melek, promising to deliver him during Jerusalem's coming judgment. The passage explicitly connects that promise with Ebed-Melek's trust in Yahweh.
This adds an important dimension to the account. His courageous intervention was not merely an example of human kindness; Scripture also identifies him as someone who placed his trust in God.
That historical promise should not be treated as a guarantee that every faithful person will escape danger. But it reminds us that Ebed-Melek's actions belong within a larger account of trust in Yahweh.
Relatable Scenario — Help That Leaves a Wound
Consider a family member who is struggling financially.
Someone steps forward and pays an overdue bill. The immediate problem is solved.
But afterward, the person providing assistance tells other relatives about the situation, repeatedly mentions the favor, or uses the assistance to establish control.
The bill is paid, but the recipient may now carry embarrassment, resentment, or a sense of obligation.
Now imagine the same assistance offered discreetly, respectfully, and without unnecessary public attention.
The financial result is identical.
The experience of receiving the help is not.
This does not mean every uncomfortable conversation is unkind. Sometimes love requires honesty, accountability, or difficult correction.
But there is a difference between helping someone confront a problem and using their vulnerability as an opportunity to elevate ourselves.
Ebed-Melek reminds us that the person receiving help matters just as much as the task being accomplished.
Core Message — The Method Matters
It is not just what you do, but how you do it.
We can be right about a situation and still respond in a way that fails to demonstrate humility.
We can fulfill a responsibility while neglecting compassion.
We can speak truth without showing the patience and gentleness appropriate to the person hearing it.
And we can accomplish something valuable while leaving unnecessary wounds along the way.
The Apostle Paul addresses this concern in Philippians 2:3–4, calling believers away from selfish ambition and toward humility and concern for others.
He then directs our attention to Yeshua.
Philippians 2:5–8 presents the Messiah's humility, obedience, and willingness to serve rather than pursue self-exaltation.
This is where our devotional must move beyond Ebed-Melek's example.
Ebed-Melek shows us a faithful human response to another person's suffering.
Yeshua shows us the fullest expression of humble, self-giving love.
His life and ministry demonstrate that genuine greatness is not established by making others feel small. His obedience to the Father led Him to give Himself for others, even through the cross.
But the cross was not the end. Yeshua rose again, and through His saving work, forgiveness and new life are offered to those who place their faith in Him. Our service does not earn this grace; it becomes one way our lives respond to the grace we have received.
For those who follow Him, the question is not simply whether we are doing religious work.
It is whether our conduct reflects the character of the Savior we profess to follow.
Life Stories — The People Who Remember How You Treated Them
Think about someone who helped you during a difficult season.
You may remember what they did. But often, what stays with you is how they treated you.
Perhaps someone listened without rushing you.
Maybe a teacher corrected your mistake without humiliating you in front of the class.
Perhaps a supervisor addressed a problem firmly but respectfully.
Maybe someone at church noticed that you were struggling and offered assistance without making your situation public.
The action mattered.
But so did the dignity, patience, and consideration that accompanied it.
Now consider the opposite.
Many people can remember an experience in which someone technically helped them but made them feel ashamed, dismissed, or indebted.
The memory of the treatment sometimes lasts longer than the problem that was solved.
This is why our conduct matters.
We do not always control how others interpret our actions, and even compassionate help may be misunderstood. Nevertheless, we remain responsible for acting with integrity, humility, and care.
Common Experiences — When Good Intentions Are Not Enough
Most of us have experienced situations where our intentions and our actions did not align.
We intended to encourage someone but spoke impatiently.
We wanted to correct a mistake but allowed frustration to control our tone.
We volunteered to serve but became irritated when others did not meet our expectations.
We tried to help a loved one but offered advice before taking time to understand what they were experiencing.
Sometimes we defend ourselves by saying, "Well, I meant well."
Good intentions matter, but they do not eliminate our responsibility to examine the effects of our conduct.
When we recognize that our approach has caused unnecessary harm, humility allows us to acknowledge it and make appropriate changes.
The question is not whether we will always handle every situation perfectly.
The question is whether we are willing to learn how to serve others more faithfully.
Everyday Challenge — When Compassion Requires More Effort
When Compassion Requires More Effort
Compassion is not always convenient.
It can require additional time, patience, attention, and preparation.
Ebed-Melek could not rescue Jeremiah simply by declaring that the situation was wrong.
He had to approach the king, organize assistance, gather materials, and carry out the rescue.
The old cloths were a small part of that preparation, but they served a practical purpose.
Our own responsibilities often present similar choices.
It may take additional effort to explain something patiently rather than dismissing someone who does not understand.
It may require self-control to correct a mistake without attacking the person who made it.
It may demand humility to listen to another perspective before insisting that our own approach is best.
It may involve sacrificing convenience to preserve someone's dignity.
Galatians 6:2 calls believers to bear one another's burdens and thereby fulfill the law of Christ.
Bearing burdens involves more than acknowledging that burdens exist.
It calls us to enter into the practical realities of another person's need.
Modern Connections — Ministry, Leadership, and Relationships
This lesson is especially important in places where people are entrusted with responsibility.
In the church, a ministry assignment should never become an excuse to belittle volunteers, ignore someone's concerns, or treat people as less important than a program.
Excellence in ministry matters. But excellence that disregards people fails to reflect the fullness of Christian service.
In leadership, difficult decisions sometimes must be made. Accountability cannot always be comfortable. Yet firmness and dignity are not enemies.
A leader can uphold standards without humiliating those being corrected.
In families, providing financially does not remove the need for patience, affection, and attentive communication.
Meeting material needs is important, but relationships also require consideration.
In the workplace, accomplishing a goal does not justify dishonesty, unnecessary cruelty, or disregard for those who contribute to the result.
In our communities, responding to another person's hardship should not become an opportunity to display our generosity or draw attention to their vulnerability.
Micah 6:8 joins justice, kindness, and humility in describing what Yahweh requires.
These qualities belong together.
Justice without compassion can become harsh.
Compassion without integrity can become superficial.
And service without humility can become self-promotion.
The challenge is to pursue what is right while remaining attentive to the people affected by our actions.
Reflection and Application — Examine Your Approach
Before moving into another busy week, consider these questions.
1. Am I more concerned with completing the task than caring for the people involved?
Responsibilities matter, but people should not become disposable in the pursuit of results.
2. How do I respond when someone needs correction?
Do my words seek restoration and understanding, or do they merely express frustration?
3. Have I used an act of kindness to establish superiority over someone else?
Genuine generosity does not require another person to lose their dignity.
4. What small act of consideration have I been overlooking?
Perhaps someone needs additional patience, a private conversation, a clearer explanation, or a willingness to listen.
5. Does my conduct reflect the humility of Yeshua?
This is the question that brings the lesson into the life of discipleship.
This Week's Assignment
Choose one responsibility, relationship, or act of service in which you can intentionally demonstrate greater consideration.
Before acting, ask yourself:
What needs to be done, and how can I do it in a way that honors Yahweh and respects the person involved?
Then act.
Not merely with good intentions, but with deliberate care.
Closing Prayer
Yahweh, our Heavenly Father, thank You for reminding us that the way we treat others matters to You.
Help us recognize the difference between completing a responsibility and fulfilling it with compassion.
When we must speak difficult truths, give us wisdom and self-control. When we encounter injustice, grant us courage to respond. When someone needs assistance, teach us to offer help without stripping away their dignity.
Forgive us for the times pride, impatience, or frustration has shaped our conduct.
Through the Holy Spirit, cultivate in us the humility, kindness, patience, and love that reflect the life of Yeshua.
May our service never become an opportunity to glorify ourselves. May our actions point others toward Your goodness.
Teach us to see people, not merely problems; to recognize needs, not merely assignments; and to demonstrate Your love in both the great and small details of everyday life.
In the name of Yeshua, our Savior, we pray.
Amen
Further Study
Notice Yahweh's promise of protection and the explicit statement that Ebed-Melek trusted Him. Read this promise within its historical setting rather than treating it as a guarantee that every believer will escape physical danger.
Philippians 2:3–8 — Humility shaped by Christ
Consider how Paul's instruction to regard others with humility is grounded in the example of Yeshua.
Galatians 6:1–2 — Restoration and burden-bearing
Examine the relationship between gentleness, accountability, and practical assistance.
John 13:12–17 — The example of the servant
Reflect on Yeshua washing His disciples' feet and His instruction that they follow His example.
Colossians 3:12–17 — The character of Christian conduct
Study how compassion, kindness, humility, patience, forgiveness, and love should shape believers' relationships.
Key Takeaway
Doing the right thing matters. Doing it with humility, compassion, and consideration reveals how seriously we take the people Yahweh has placed before us.
Concluding Thoughts — Don't Forget the Cloths
When we remember Jeremiah's rescue, it is natural to focus on the dramatic moment when he was lifted from the cistern.
But Scripture also tells us about the old cloths.
They were not the centerpiece of the rescue. They were ordinary materials used for a practical purpose.
Yet their inclusion reminds us that Ebed-Melek's actions were attentive to Jeremiah's physical needs.
He confronted injustice, gathered help, and took care in carrying out the rescue.
That is a lesson worth carrying into our own lives.
We may never stand before a king to defend a prophet. We may never lower ropes into a muddy cistern.
But we will encounter people who are vulnerable, discouraged, overwhelmed, or in need of assistance.
And we will have opportunities to decide not only whether we will help, but how we will help.
Will we preserve their dignity?
Will we demonstrate patience?
Will we speak truth with humility?
Will we take the extra step that makes our assistance more considerate?
Yeshua calls His followers to a life in which love is more than a declaration. It is expressed through obedience, service, and concern for others.
So this week, as you pursue your responsibilities and seek to fulfill your purpose, remember the lesson of Ebed-Melek.
Don't become so focused on getting someone out of the pit that you forget to consider how you are lifting them.
Because sometimes the difference between merely completing a good deed and demonstrating genuine compassion is found in the details.
It's not just what you do, but how you do it.
Key Terms
Ebed-Melek: A Cushite official in King Zedekiah's household who intervened to rescue Jeremiah from the cistern. His name means "servant of the king."
Cushite: A person associated with Cush, an ancient region generally located south of Egypt, particularly in the area of present-day Sudan.
Cistern: A constructed reservoir used to collect and store water. Jeremiah was placed in a cistern that contained mud rather than water.
Compassion: Concern for another person's suffering that can move someone toward thoughtful, practical assistance.
Humility: An attitude that rejects self-exaltation and recognizes the worth and needs of others.
Justice: Acting according to what is right and confronting wrongdoing, particularly where people are vulnerable to mistreatment.
Burden-bearing: The practice of supporting others through difficulties, reflecting the mutual responsibility described in Galatians 6:2.
Servanthood: The willingness to serve others faithfully, following the example of Yeshua rather than seeking personal status or recognition.
